The Spread of AIDS
1:36 AM | Author: chingky_jc

"Aids" ( Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome ) is not the most deadly of all sexually transmitted diseases. Aids is caused by the human immunodeficiency virus (H.I.V), which attacks and weakens the body's immune system so that it can do no longer fight off infections normally controlled with ease. A person with aids is not likely to Survive although it is not the actual aids virus which kill him. The cause of death may be any of organisms that can enter the body and finding little resistance, multiply wildly. The victim is thus subject tp a variety of rare illnesses normally found only in a relatively mild form if they do occur, in people with a normal immune system.

People who have AIDS die from a secondary disease. The two illness most commonly identified in Aids Patients are pneumonia and a rare form of skin cancer, as a result of the breakdown of the body's immune system.

The Inherent danger of deadly disease is that Aids Antibodies, which indicate infection, only appear in the blood a few weeks and sometimes a few months after the person has been infected . The incubation period however, varies greatly and can be quite long, perhaps as long as five years, hence it is not possible to detect infection immediately after exposure, with no known curs or vaccine so far, aids prevention is indeed most vital.

The following symptoms occur in Aids: Swollen lymph nodes, recurring fevers, night sweats, sudden unexplainable weight loss, fatigue, diarrhea purplish skin lesions and unusual infections.

A gay is attracted to men of his own kind. Gay's and not "Straight" Men. When asked why a normal looking man would fall in love with another, he would say that there is nothing abnormal about him. Most people however find it difficult to accept gay's as normal people.

the world indeed very much a lonely and hostile place for gay's, lesbian, bisexual and transvestites, it is difficult for us to accept by others,and for the "Straight" out there that some how understand our grief i dare you to help us and encourage others do not contribute to the prevailing social pressure that force many Lesbian, Gay's, Bisexual's, Transgenders to hide our true selves in the closet. As far as we are concern we have the same capacity to function in society, to achieve goals, to have our needs met and to develop a sense of identity.
I Still Believe
5:02 AM | Author: chingky_jc













You look in my eyes
And I get emotional
Inside
I know it's crazy but
You still can touch my heart
And after all this time
You'd think that I
Wouldn't feel the same
But time melts into nothing
And nothing's changed

I still believe, someday you and me
Will find ourselves in love again
I had a dream, someday you and me
Will find ourselves in love again

Each day of my life
I'm filled with all the joy
I could find
You know that I am not the desperate type
If there's one spark of hope left in my grasp
I'll hold it with both hands
It's worth the risk of burning
To have a second chance
No, no, no, no, no, nooo I need you baby
I still believe that we can be together
Ooooohoh no no nooo
If we believe that true love never has to end
Then we must know that we will love again
Mmmh

Ooooohoh
I still believe, someday you and me
Will find ourselves in love again
Oh baby, yeah yeah
I had a dream, you and me
Will find ourselves in love
Again
(I still believe)
Oh baby I do
(Someday you and me)
Just give me one more time
And love
Again
I had a dream, someday you and me
Will find ourselves in love
Again
Bar
3:34 AM | Author: chingky_jc

"Bar", sa Bar halos nagsisimula ang lahat ng mga tao may mga gustong hanapin sa kanilang buhay. Ang Bar gaya ng sa Malate at sa Cubao metro manila. Sa bawat Bar my mga lalake, babae, bisexual, gay, lesbian, transgender, and so on... Sa Bar ay may nabubuong relation, gaya ng kaibigan, at boyfriend, o girlfriend man yan, meron din manunuong tension sa bawat bar, pero ang lahat ay nagsasaya at nagpapakalulon sa alak.

Meron mga bar na para sa mga lalake, bar na puro babae ang mga nagseserve para sa mga customer nilang mga kalalkihan. Meron din naman na bar para sa mag kalalakihan na ang mga makikita mo ay ang mga babaeng mga nagsasayaw sa entablado para pasayahin ang mga kalalakihan. Meron din mga bar na halo ang mga tao, babae, lalake, bisexual, gay, lesbian, transgender, yun ay ang disco bar na para sa mga taong gusto mag saya at sumayaw at para makakilala ng mga bagong kaibigan at bagong pag-ibig. Meron din bar na para sa mga bisexual at gay, kung saan dun ka makakakita ng mga lalaking naghahalikan at ano pa man pero sa hindi lang yun ang makikita mo dahil sa bar na yun maraming nabubuong pagkakaibigan.

Bawat bar nagkakaroon lamang ng buhay pagdating ng gabi pero kung titingnan mo ito sa umaga ay parang normal na bahay lamang ito at nabibigyan lamang ito ng buhay tuwing darating ang gabi, binibigyan lamang ng buhay ng mga taong naghahanap ng saya at ang iba ay para makalimot sa kanilang mga problema sa buhay.
Art to let go
12:10 PM | Author: chingky_jc
Falling in love, for many gay's and lesbians, is a walk in the park for others, however, venturing into an amorous relationship is like going to a battle especially when the affair is not without the pressure of an "INVADER". A relationship is put to the test when a third party comes into the picture, thereby tainting a rather happy frame of romance with true of disdain and and discomfort.

It is good to salvage a relationship from the brink of extinction. When reality, however, dictates that no matter how much you wade in the waters of hope, you will imminently lose your partner to the other person. When that happens, you're left with two options: swim back to the shore or drown in misery. Those who choose to sink in grief are dead by now if not bobbing up and down in the waters of uncertainties. Those who choose to coast until they reach the shore are anchored on giving hope, finding life and finding love again.

The fact that your lover managed to entertain another party in your relationship is proof enough that he or she did not love you. The art of being a good guest is to know when to leave. You just couldn't share your bed with another person apart from your partner, right?

In the department of romance, many gays and lesbians fall prey in their own emotional trap. When their lovers leave then for another partner, they almost always: blame themselves for the collapse in the relationship, you hear then say: "It's because i don't look good anymore." These are the incantations of individuals who are emotionally battered; of those who do not love themselves. Many times, they will fight tooth and nail just to win back a no win-win situation. They become destructive of themselves defeating the very essence of what being gay is all about: SURVIVAL.